I always ponder on how someone who has never had sex or used a condom in their entire life know that using a condom reduces pleasure, its common knowledge that everyone thinks that condom reduces pleasure I would always ask which condom? Condoms come in different sizes and designs just to satisfy the pleasure needs of people. In my experience,
I have heard people say things like condom reduces pleasure and I always ask how do you know or what types have you tried. If you tell me you have tried a variety and you don’t like then I can give up and agree with you.
My fellow skin divers, sex sweet until person carry STI/HIV, on top say e wan do skin-to-skin. Forget what people say, you can use a condom and still enjoy sex even more than skin-to-skin. How? I will share with you.
- Talk to your partner
Communication is very important in any relationship if you are not communicating in your relationship, what are you doing? Communicating prior to sex even makes it more fun; you and your partner know how to make it pleasurable. Tell your partner “let’s try a condom” if he or she asks why you should state the advantages of using a condom; you love them and don’t want them going through any stress or trauma because of an STI or pregnancy.
- Ladies, buy the condom
I know this is weird for some but trust me this works. If your partner decides not to get the condom as an excuse not to use one, be your own insurance policy by buying the condom. You have both you and your partner covered.
- Put the rubber on it/ put the condom on the penis
Every minute of sex should be fun, why don’t you spice up those few awkward moments of looking left-right while waiting, for him to wear a condom by wearing the condom for him. If he loses an erection while wearing a condom on, work that magic with your hands and wear the condom for him. Don’t be shy!
- We need more Lubes.
The rule is lubrication can never be too much. Lubes and condoms are like two things that when combined together makes it better (for me rice and beans) condoms and lube always go together. For increased sensation put a few drops of lube in the condom before wearing it, after wearing it, add some more lube. Slide in safely and get all the pleasure you can.
Note: use water-based lubes only with condoms.
- There is a reason fruit salad was discovered.
Fruit salad ensures you eat all the fruit you want all at the same time and means you are not bored with the same taste and its a burst of flavors. Variety is the spice of life, sticking to routines can be so boring *rme*. This applies to sex, spice up your sex life try different condoms and Look for one that works for you, there are lots of condoms to pick from; glow in the dark, black, ultrathin/Featherlite, flavored, dotted, ribbed, the list is endless. Experiment with all, be adventurous and find that which suits you.
I hope this helps, would love to hear from you in the comment section.
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